Thursday, October 05, 2006

We've Come a Long Way Baby and Still Have A Long Way to Go!

I love to just browse thru history books, genealogy records, and the encyclopedia. Browsing thru the Wikipedia encyclopedia I came across the women's suffrage stamp that's shown in the picture on the left.

In looking at the women's suffrage stamp I got to thinking about my great, great Aunt "Flossie" and my Grandmother "Dee."

Why did these two women come to mind when I saw the stamp?

Because they grew up during the time that the women's suffrage movement was at its peak.

Little history lesson : American women earned the right to vote with the passage of the 19th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution in 1920. This amendment was finally accomplished after years (actually decades, if not centuries) of effort by women, in general, and the women's suffrage movement, in particular.

My "Flossie" Victorian doll pattern (see Linda Walsh Originals Victorian "Lady") is named after my great, great Aunt Florence, who is shown in the picture on the right.

My great, great Aunt Flossie was born in 1882 and was the first women to go to college in our family. She graduated from Tufts University in 1904. She then went on to be one of the first women to work for the State Department of Corporations and Taxation. She worked for the state until she retired in 1947.

My "Dee" Victorian doll pattern (see Linda Walsh Originals Victorian "Lady") is named after my Grandmother Doris, who is shown in the picture below. My Grandmother "Dee" was born in 1896, went on to Salem Teachers College and graduated with a teaching degree in 1917.

My great, great Aunt "Flossie" was a true believer of women's rights, as was my Grandmother "Dee". Both women were very intelligent and were very strong women. Both were very confident in themselves and both held strong beliefs and convictions.

Their beliefs were aligned with that of the women's rights movement and, in particular, the right to vote. I would have to say that their beliefs definitely had a profound affect on my mother which, in turn, had an affect on me.

As an aside. I just love asides, don't I? The only weakness in my Grandmother as far as women's rights were concerned had to do with the wearing of pants. She strongly disagreed with this fashion statement and was very critical of my Mother for wearing them. I never saw my Grandmother in anything but a dress or skirt. God forbid a bathing suit. Yikes!

In any event, where is all this leading us. In thinking about all of this I came to the sad realization that some of the young women of today don't realize how difficult the path for women's rights has been and how important the right to vote is. Some don't realize how far women's rights have come.

Just the difference in rights between now and 35 years ago when I started working is staggering. While the changes in the workplace are very evident and promising, they still have a long way to go.

When I started working "old boy networks" were the norm. Women really weren't wanted in the workplace. Most of the boards of directors of all the companies were men. All of the executives, to be sure, were. All the politicians were men. And so on, and so on, and so on....

A women executive, no way. The men would say "they don't have the skills." I would argue "how can we get the skills if you never give us a chance?"

My Grandmother and Great, Great Aunt lived in some amazing times for women. They would be astonished at the accomplishments of women today.

That said, however, we still have not had a female President. The number of females in Congress is still far too little and one of the only two females on the Supreme Court has retired.

The women in my Grandmothers and Great, Great Aunts day had to fight for their rights and fight for the right to vote. We've come a long way, baby (how true). Yet, we've still got a long way to go.


  1. Anonymous8:12 AM

    Oh they were such beautiful ladies!

  2. Shashi, thank you so much for saying that. They were beautiful women. I am so proud to be a Granddaughter and Great, Great Niece.


  3. I'm SO glad I saw your blog listed on Shashi's list of those being tagged today! What an interesting blog! I can't wait to sit & just read EVERYTHING you've written! In the meantime, I will add this comment. Even in 1971 when I was expecting my one and only child, I was forced to quit (not go on MATERNITY leave, mind you, but QUIT) at 5 months because that was the 'rule' back then. I spent the last months of my pregnancy bored & EATING. LOL! NOT a good thing! We have come a long way - but we are by no means there yet!

  4. Good morning, Kai. I know exactly what you mean. Back then when I would apply for a job they always asked me "if I was planning on having children." You had to be careful how you answered that as most places didn't want to hire young married women who wanted to have children. The discrimination laws have improved this situation somewhat. But, we still have a long way to go.